We have a new guitarist in our band, and he's a virtuoso. He has a great understanding of music, a good ear, and dexterity like you wouldn't believe. Guy can play a number of styles.
I feel pretty good about my playing--I'm pretty good rhythm player--timing is good, taste is good, brag blah blah. But when I play with this guy, I realize my weaknesses.
1. I'm slower than shit at leads. I love playing lead and tell myself it's okay because Gilmour is also slow.
2. I don't know my scales like he does.
3. I think so differently than he does. I'm so old school, and boogie comes naturally to me. He's just so much more fluid in the way he approaches songs. It puts me to shame.
4. I can't shred or tap or get even close to having the dexterity to play something like "Cliffs of Dover."
My real strengths as a lead player are that I have a strong sense of melody, I can coax a good tone out of a guitar, and I'm fairly tasty.
But man, I so want to up my game. It just seems so overwhelming, and I'm not sure where to start. There are so many things I need to learn, so many ways to learn them.
I have such a hard time reading tabs or notation. My ear is strong, and I usually get the notes that way before I can read them on the page.
Input? Relate?