Good morning - my turn. Considering I didn't even remember this thread last week until Wednesday, and then decided to wait...
The Mrs. is finally on the mend. They did the vein version of angioplasty on her legs - blood clots formed due to COVID had her in a lot of pain. The clots in the lungs are going away through the meds. She's finally feeling better. Had three deaths this week. The spouse of my first executive director had his funeral on Saturday. I also found out my first girlfriend (back in college) died a few months ago. The relationship didn't last too long, but she did lend me her guitar for a while and taught me some rudimentary chords and started me on a lifelong passion.
The third death was the weird one. About five years ago I found my birth mother through Ancestry DNA and she told me the name of my father. He was alive and lived about 20 minutes away. I reached out to him but he did not respond. Well, fast forward to this weekend, my brother catches his obituary in the local paper. Obviously, I was conflicted - how did I feel about this guy, who took off after giving my mother an envelope with a couple hundred bucks in it, and giving her no option but to give me up for adoption. On the other hand, my adoptive father was a wonderful man who was a great provider and incredible role model. I decided to go to the funeral, and even had a thought to spitting in the coffin when I went past it. That, or going back and pissing on his grave.
In the end, I did none of those things and walked out at the end of the service totally free of any emotion about the guy. I got to wipe thee ledger clean. It was one of the weirdest moments in my life.
Hey - have a great week!!!